At the risk of sounding philosophical...

This blog is not really intended for my musings about life and whatnot...but I thought I would share something I have learned in my young life...and maybe it will help you.

This is it, cliched as it may be: there are no magic answers. There is only slogging through the swamp of life. No book, inspirational saying, or friend can haul me out of whatever I'm dealing with at the moment. Such things can be helpful and valuable; truly, at times I have leaned heavily on my friends. But in the end, no one can do the shit work of life except me.

I must make an effort, do what needs to be done, and above all, remember to ask myself if what I'm doing is balanced.

In life, there's a lot of plodding, a lot of greyness, a lot of heaviness. Sometimes just carrying on takes a lot of effort. But I've also learned that there is hope...because, though it might take a long, long time, it's only through struggling that I will grow and learn, and become a healthier, happier person. It's kind of a raw deal really, but I've found that's the way it works.

Geez, now I sound like an inspirational saying. Time to get off soapbox. But not before I once again say thank you to all my friends and family. I love you so much, you will never know, and you've been immeasurably helpful to me.

Edited to add: Life is awesome. It's going really super well, and I'm happy. Just realized this post made it sound like everything is not ok...which is not the case! lol Just something I've learned over the last long while... Love to you, good vibes from Asia coming your way... :) XO